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SISTER ACT





Scissor SistersScissor Sisters, Neil Tennant, Ben Elton, Pete Tong and DJ Sammy Jo have all been confirmed for a huge fundraising gig, Smile 2007, for UK HIV charity Body & Soul.
Scissor Sister Ana Matronic is already patron of the charity which supports children and families living with or affected by HIV and includes youth group Teen Spirit.
Ana Matronic knows all too well about the devastation caused by Aids. In recent years she has spoken movingly about the stigma she experienced after her father died of Aids-related illness. This may, in part, explain why the band has rarely missed a chance to support the fight against the global epidemic.
Who can forget the sensational gig in September 2006 when the glamorous funky divas performed in an all-Red Trafalgar Square to raise awareness of Bono’s (Red) Campaign for universal access to HIV drugs.
Proceeds will be used to refurbish Body and Soul’s new premises in Rosebery Avenue, Clerkenwell, and secure the charity’s long-term future. JK. www.bodyandsoulcharity.org

18 Feb • Tickets £100, from Koko
(formally the Camden Palace) •
www.koko.uk.com
• 0870 145 1115

ERASURE UNPLUGGED





The Road to Nashville CD cover
Pop duo Erasure, led by openly HIV positive singer Andy Bell, last year abadoned their synths, donned Stetsons and headed to Nashville, Tennesse, where they performed an acoustic set of their hits. The result was a new DVD, The Road to Nashville, filmed at the Ryman Auditorium during their Union Street Acoustic Tour. The DVD features Oh L’amour, Love to Hate You, Stop!, Blue Savannah, Victim of Love and Sometimes, a short film, The Road to Union Street, plus a bonus audio CD featuring 18 live songs. The DVD features an uncharacteristically unplugged Vince Clark on guitar, mandolin and harmonica plus many musical guests.
Due out 29 January on Mute.




WORLD WISE WEB

Dipex wweb pageListen to first-hand experiences of others living with HIV and chat on forums at a new HIV section on the Dipex website. Watch video clips of people discussing their experiences of diagnosis, services, disclosure of their HIV status and stigma and discrimination. Lead researcher Professor Jonathan Elford, of City University, said: “Being able to hear the stories of other people with HIV can give hope, a sense of not being alone, and provide helpful advice. These first-hand accounts give relatives, friends and carers – as well as the wider public – a better understanding of what people with HIV go through.” DIPEx is charity website that features clips and information on 31 health topics www.awareuk.info

AWARE web pageWhile people with HIV don’t always see eye to eye – they are certainly united on one important matter – we all think schools are rubbish at providing information to pupils about Aids.
But finally, thanks to AWARE, an online media kit produced by Crusaid, the classroom could soon cease to be hot-bed of HIV ignorance. This year, pupils studying GCSE English in 1,500 London schools will use AWARE to devise their own Aids awareness campaign.
Ian Sankey, head of English at Lilian Baylis Technology School, Lambeth, said: “HIV education in our schools is extremely unsatisfactory. The Crusaid AWARE Media Kit allows students to continue working towards their English qualifications while also learning important personal lessons which will enable them to make informed decisions about their sexual health for their future.” www.awareuk.info

In the cut-throat boom land of the internet it’s good to see that it isn’t all take, take, take. Surf2Aid.org is a not for profit organisation that exists to raise funding and awareness for charities. Each time you search using www.surf2aid.org and find and use your result as you would any other search engine, revenue goes straight to Crusaid, Terrence Higgins Trust, National Aids Trust and UKC. So ditch Google and get shopping.
www.surf2aid.org

bpbrighton web pagesussexbeacon web page Elsewhere, Sussex Beacon and Brighton Body Positive have both improved the look, navigability and features on their website sites, making it easier to access services and info.
www.bpbrighton.org.uk www.sussexbeacon.org.uk



TELL IT LIKE IT IS


Tell Me About HIV guide


Just diagnosed, or simply want to brush up on the basics? Tell Me About HIV is an essential guide to living with the virus written by and for people living with HIV.
It is the first in the UKC’s new Positive Choices booklet series for people living with HIV and will be available in HIV clinics shortly. Can’t wait till your next appointment? Then order a copy by emailing your address to amorgan@positivenation.co.uk including the words ‘Tell Me’ in the subject line. You can also call 020 7564 2180, or write to Andi Morgan at UKC, 250 Kennington Lane, London SE11 5RD. At the same time why not register to automatically receive future booklets and set up a subscription to Positive Nation direct to your home.







LOST HISTORY



star SylvesterLesbians, gay men, bisexuals and transsexuals didn’t just arrive from another planet sometime in the 1970s. LGBT people have been part of every culture since time began, though prejudice and ignorance has often suppressed their stories. February is LGBT History Month which redresses the balance by highlighting this hidden history. Highlights include a screening of Living with Pride - Ruth Ellis at 100, a moving documentary about an openly gay African-American woman celebrating her 100th birthday, at Swiss Cottage Central Library.
On 8 February, Andy Bell will take to the decks at the Black Cap, Camden, to celebrate the life of the disco star Sylvester, one of the first high profile figures to go public with their HIV status. In Scotland on 14 February there will be a screening of witty documentary The Celluloid Closet at The Filmhouse, Edinburgh, 0131 228 2688; plus special guided tours of the Scottish national galleries.

0131 624 6200 • www.lgbthistorymonth.org.uk for England and Wales • www.lgbthistory.org.uk for Scotland

GOOD VIBRATIONS




Durex condomsGive your Valentine what they really want this year – a tingle where it matters. Play Vibrations by Durex is a disposable stimulation ring that may be ideal for those who find condoms tricky or a turn-off. The ring is slipped on after the condom and is designed to take you and your partner to new heights of quivering pleasure. This ring has made history by becoming the first sex toy to be advertised on terrestrial TV and promises stimulation and added pleasure for all, regardless of gender.
£5.99 from chemists




LOVE IS IN THE AIR



carnival mask
South Yorkshire HIV support group SHIELD is holding a fundraising Masked Valentine Ball at Sheffield United Football Ground’s Platinum Suite, on 8 February. The romantic evening includes music from Opera North, jazz performances, three course silver-service dinner, prizes for best dressed and best mask, charity auction and dancing. JK

£30 • 7.30pm till late • 0114 278 7916 shield@care4free.net



WINNER TAKES IT ALL

Yule Giveaway



Our lucky winner of the PN big Yule Giveaway posed for a snap when he popped into out offices to collect his booty. Glenn, from north London, was especially pleased with his gifts from Boots, DKNY, Caroline Herrera and Paperchase: “I was mugged a couple of weeks ago and this has really cheered me up,” he said.



ATHEIST’S ANTIDOTE


Gay Humanist Quarterly magazine



With religion playing an ever increasing role in many parts of life these days, atheists can often feel side-lined. One antidote could be the Gay Humanist Quarterly, a magazine of the Gay & Lesbian Humanist Association which covers sexuality, politics, humanism, atheism, liberalism and free thought, particularly (but not exclusively) from a gay and lesbian perspective. The latest edition includes articles on the freedom of speech versus blasphemy debate, the campaign for civil partnerships and the life and loves of Marlene Dietrich.
www.gayhumanist.com • 01992 858 450




STICK IT TO STIGMA


HIV-related stigma is almost as damaging as HIV itself; it stops people testing for HIV and can lead people with an HIV diagnosis to regard it as ‘their fault’. In reality, everyone has sex and anyone can catch HIV, yet large sections of society still view us as pariahs. A new booklet from National Aids Manual, HIV stigma & you, aims to combat this ignorance by explaining why it exists, its negative effects and how to deal with it.
Pick up a copy at your clinic, visit www.aidsmap.com or call 020 7840 0050



WIN CONRAN SPECS

unisex design specsIn his career, Habitiat founder Terence Conran has waved his design wand across everything from posh grub to kitchenware. Now the design guru has set his sights on contemporary eyewear with the launch of VISION by CONRAN. This fresh range of spectacles includes 12 designs in a variety of colours and finishes. Masculine and unisex with an integrated neck cord, these specs are destined to become a design classic. Available at boutique opticians across the UK, from £125 to £175 tel 01225 717000 for local stockists.




DIARYFEBRUARY


01 UK & IRELAND Samaritans’ Stress Down Day
is designed to increase awareness of stress in the workplace and improve the emotional well-being of employees as well as raise funds. To get your workplace involved visit www.stressdownday.org

03/04 LONDON Gay Tantra Erotic Massage workshop at the Helios centre with Armin-Christoph Heining. Singles and male couples with an interest in touch, erotic movement and relaxation welcome. +49 911 2448616 • www.gay-tantra.co.uk

06 LONDON KVN Patients’ Forum for Kobler/Victoria clinic and Nkosi Johnson unit meets first Tuesday of the month; open to all patients using these services.kvnadmin@fosterweb.org • 020 8746 5019
The Kobler Clinic also offers 30 per cent off all Lamberts vitamins and supplements.

06-27 LONDON To mark the 200th anniversary of the abolition of slavery in Britain Amnesty and Anti-Slavery International are holding a photographic exhibition and a series of talks on slavery past and present. Human Rights Action Centre, 17-25 New Inn Yard • Free • www.antislavery.org/2007

07 LONDON Str8talk at Lighthouse West; regular meeting for straight HIV Positive people. 15 Feb at UKC and 21 Feb Positively Women. Call Nicole on 020 7713 0444 • www.str8talk.org

10 LONDON Naz, Soho Saturday Workshops;
‘Religion, homosexuality and me’. Created to educate, empower and increase black and minority ethnic volunteers from lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender communities. Call Christina or Vanessa on 020 8741 1879 christina@naz.org.uk • www.naz.org.uk

17 LONDON Faith and Homophobia Multi-faith conference probing religion and sexuality. All welcome. £25-£160 dependent on status • 9.00-5:30pm, reception 5.30-7pm • www.lgcm.org.uk/fhconference

18 & 25 LONDON Rufus Wainwright’s acclaimed recreation of Judy Garland’s 1961 Carnegie Hall show is already sold out in the UK. However, Crusaid have 200 VIP tickets for each performance, including entry to his after-show party, signed posters and Marc Jacobs t-shirt. 020 7539 3884 • £175 minimum suggested donation

20 MERSEYSIDE Sahir House has re-established its Positve Gay Men’s Group. 6-8pm • 0151 708 9080 • www.sahir.uk.com

23 BRISTOL THT is holding a half day of training on post-exposure prophylaxis for health promotors, staff and volunteers working with Black and BME communities.

24 WOKING Gay Surrey holds its monthly fundraising club night Rumble. This month, Rumble Romance. £6 • last Saturday every month • Quake, Crown Square, Woking • www.gaysurrey.org/clubnight

26 LONDON NAM's information forum on the future of HIV treatment. When it comes to treatment and standards of care have we never had it so good or are we still living in the HIV dark ages? University of London Union, third floor, rooms 3C&D, Malet Street, London • Free • 020 7840 0050 • www.aidsmap.com

UPDATE
Gay.com Stonewall Football Club online petition to 'Kick Homophobia out of Football' is still taking signatures so encourage friends, families and work colleagues to sign. The petition will be presented to the Minister for Sport. www.uk.gay.com/kick

PN treatment editor Robert Fieldhouse would like to hear from people living with HIV who have survived cancer for an up-coming feature. If you are interested in sharing your story email robertfieldhouse@hotmail.com

Positive Parenting and Children is re-launching its Fathers’ Support Group after a consultation meeting in January. For details email oscar@ppclondon.co.uk • 020 7738 7333

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